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10 must-take photos on dog’s first day home

dogs first day home collage

When we first adopted Donna, I wasn’t very big on taking photos. And now it’s too late to regret that we are missing photos that would have served as reminders for all the nitty-gritty details that made up that first day.

But if you’re currently considering adoption or waiting for a new puppy from a responsible breeder then you are not too late!

Here are ten ideas of what photos I wouldn’t miss taking if I could do it all over again. ;)

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1. Picking up dog

I wouldn’t have thought of it, but it seemed part of Gentle Paws‘ standard operating procedure to take a family photo of the dog and his/her new adopted family…

donna mongrel dog

…. with heads, of course. It’s just that the humans of this blog are shy. :P

This is the only photo we have of us with Donna that day in front of the shelter where we picked her up. She was overweight then so she would perhaps seem a bit stouter than she is now.

This is more of a milestone photo. So instead of a posed picture, you can also get a friend to take a photo of the scene where the dog is being handed over to you or as you and your dog are leaving his/her previous home.

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2. Exploring the new home

A new homecoming wouldn’t be complete without a photo of the pet checking out his new home.

Since coming into a new home can be a stressful experience for the new pet, most advice regarding this transition is to let the pet explore the home at his own pace. This doesn’t mean you should let a new puppy or kitten be un-supervised, but it does mean giving him or her space to venture out a bit and explore, even if it is just one room of the house.

kitten

Hanging back gives you the leisure to take candid shots of the pet sniffing about the new home, without getting into his or her face. Taking wider shots will help show the pet’s size relatively to the furniture in the room.

This is a photo of a new kitten in the flat I lived in in my teens. I have since moved twice, so it is an interesting reminder of an old home for me as well.

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3. Profiling shots

As a new dog owner, days or months after the first day I found myself wondering at times – was this bump there when we first brought her home? Did that chip on her tooth happen before or after she came to the flat? Or how much slimmer does she look now compared to previously?

Profiling shots – front view, side view, close up on face, paws, etc – will give you the details for that first day so you’ll always have a comparison later on.

mango the sheltie before and after
The before and after pictures shows the physical improvements Mango has undergone from his first day of adoption to close a year later.

Top: when I first came to mama. Bottom: after a year! So when I was first adopted, my prev owners got my shaved down so I looked like the above. After some major nutritional changes and regular grooming, I look like the bottom picture now! Although I think my fur got even longer already. And I gained some weight :( and my tail is touching the floor! Which sometimes get stepped on accidentally. :/ – @mangothesheltie

Of course, if your new adopted dog is nervous or worried, getting too close for a close up on his face can be an unpleasant experience for the dog. So plan your shots but plan to also react appropriately to the circumstances. If the dog is unwilling, don’t force it and make his/her first day with you a bad experience. :)

Now, even though we adopted an adult dog and were not privy to her growing up years, Gentle Paws did have a few photos that documented Donna as a 2 month old at the shelter, and at 6 months, a nervous, lanky puppy in her previous adopted home.

donna puppy
Donna at 2 months, Donna at 6 months and Donna as an adult look so different from one another!

Puppies grow up so quickly so be sure to take some shots of your new puppy on that first day and also at various growth stages before they outgrow puppyhood. ;)

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4. First bath

If you’re finicky about household cleanliness, or if you adopt a badly-cared for dog from a less than responsible family that no longer wanted him, chances are you’ll want to give him a bath and have him all nice and clean before the day is over.

Be sure to take a shot of your handiwork when the dog comes out all clean and shiny from his first bath!

sheldon puppy
Here’s stray puppy Sheldon adopted at estimated two months, still small enough to fit in the sink at the time. :P Afraid he’s too big for that now!

I didn’t realize that I have such an innocent face back then – @situkangnyampah

Some nice bath pictures, though not first day home :P – Tugger and Toby

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5. Meeting the human family

Some dogs are nervous and easily worried. Like Donna, her first reaction was to evade and slink away when our other family members tried to meet her for the first time. So let the dog take her time to approach new family members at her own pace.

Depending on the nature of the meeting, it could result in a photo of a dog tentatively meeting a new human or a cosy photo like this of Cotton the Maltese safe in the human’s mother’s arms. Regardless, it’s a photo that documents not just the beginnings of a new relationship, but also a moment in a loved one’s life, so capture it!

cotton maltese
Cotton the maltese who has a seizure risk and cannot be left alone for more than 4 hours at a time on her first day home.

This photo was taken an hour after the volunteers left our house during Cotton’s first day into her home stay period… Even with us being almost complete strangers, cotton laid in my mum’s arms, perhaps knowing that she’s in her forever home and safe now. – @cottonthemaltese

Other first day home family photos: Lycan with his dad

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6. Meeting the other pet siblings

Integrating a new pet into a household with other pets make for an interesting or, in Mango’s case, a rather scary experience.

mango shetland sheepdog meets scary cat

When I first met The Boss of the house. I’m sorry to report that right after this picture, I peed, frozen in place. Now he doesn’t scare me anymore (he doesn’t mind me), unlike the other fat one. – @mangothesheltie

I’m sorry for Mango, but I also have to say candid shots like this one that captured his expressiveness are memorable. :P I’m glad he has since gotten on well enough with the feline boss of the flat.

When taking photos of new pets meeting their other furry siblings, be sure to have other humans be on hand to manage the pets so they don’t hurt each other, just in case they couldn’t get along at first sight!

Other first day home sibling photos: Witty and Abbey

Only dog in the family? How about a photo with dog’s first toy? :) Before it gets shredded :P

brownie the toy poodle

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7. What the dog did on his first day home

Capture the most memorable thing your dog will do on his first day home. Could be wriggling around on the floor, chewing forbidden furniture, etc.

Cookie’s first day at home! It’s been eight months! Right after he came in, he was busy running around the house and jumping around due to his high energy, and lack of exposure to outside (other than his old home) Resting after feeling tired from the ‘exercise’ –  @somewhitecookie

And of course, the human had to take a candid shot of the aftermath of Cookie’s zoomiessome white cookie japanese spitz
K, I’m dog tired now. 

Donna also had the zoomies on her first day home, but with regular exercise, zoomies in the house are a thing of the past. Unfortunately, I was too busy freaking out at the time as a dog idiot so I don’t have a photo of that scene!! :P

So yes, take snaps of whatever interesting thing the dog is doing, because you never know if you’ll miss that picture later on.

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8. Feeling more comfortable at home

One of the best kind of picture to take, is this – the new dog feeling comfortable at home. ;) ‘Nough said.

donut the westie

Felt at home instantly – @donutthewestie

 

9. The dog’s expressions

You may be bringing home an innocent happy puppy, or you may be bringing home a rescue who will look sort of worried.

That is natural, so don’t sweat it.

When dog has become more comfortable with the presence of the camera, capture his/her expressions to remember what the dog felt that day. It’s a good way to remember but be sure to embrace a future where the dog will look more happy and confident with you.

mongrel puppy and sheltie
Left: Witty | Right: Mango

 

10. First night at home

It is likely that the new dog will spend much of her time sleeping. It’s a coping mechanism with the stress of being in a new place.

Take photos of what the dog is doing on her first night home. And if she just happens to be sleeping, these photos can turn out to be super cute!

corgi and mongrel puppies
Top: Toby | Bottom: Abbey

This is me sleeping the very first night my parents brought me home, they were so anxious that I could not sleep so mummy gave me a star star to accompany me. To their surprise I slept soooo soundly thru the night! – @tobymycorgi

I’m not sure if most people, like us, didn’t really plan to take photos of dog’s first day home. So whatever photos we have are not of great quality. But I’m sure with a little planning, you can take good memorable photos of the new puppy or dog that you plan to bring home.

So have fun with your dog’s first day home. Take pictures but be mindful of the dog’s level of comfort with the camera. Some dogs hate the camera.

The main thing is have a great time with your new dog and make him feel at home. ;)

Do you have other great photo ideas that you wouldn’t miss taking on dog’s first day home? Share with me in the comments! Thanks!

Singapore Dogs on Instagram – Show us your dog’s first day home was like! Details here.

dogs first day home collage

 

*All photos reproduced with the kind permission of the original authors of the photos. 

Moody dog

1 Day 1 World Project: Donna at 8:00pm – 9:00pm 


But I want to stay in here, human. 

Donna seems to have become so comfortable in the study that she spends a lot of time in it, with or without the human.

She comes in here when she feels fearful. It has been thundering quite a bit last two weeks. And then she becomes very calm and falls asleep.

She also comes in here when the human tries to positively condition her to like the pole she is supposed to jump over. She goes – I dun wanna! – and slinks into the study to hide.

Long road ahead for the human with that pole jumping thing. :/ Think we got to desensitize her to it first, but that is another story for another time.

Anyway, if she’s stays in there much longer, we’ll probably have to start calling her the otaku-dog. :(

It’s ok when the dog doesn’t come when called. Sometimes, it just means she’s not comfortable and we’re better laying off on the pole jumping. We cab always do other fun things, set her up for success and build back some confidence.

For 24 weeks, weliveinaflat will post photos taken for a specific hour in that week.
We will cover 24 hours in 24 weeks. (I’ve no idea how we will do the sleeping hours, lol!)
More about the 1 Day 1 World Project here.

Dog lobbies for better food

1 Day 1 World Project: Donna at 9:00pm – 10:00pm

I made the mistake of feeding her canned food to her just a few minutes before, and now Donna has decided kibble is beneath her.


You can do better than that, human!

You know you can give me something better than kibble. You can do this! Believe in yourself! You can!

In the game of patience, one often finds the dog turning away from you.


I had to entertain myself somehow.

 

For 24 weeks, weliveinaflat will post photos taken for a specific hour in that week.
We will cover 24 hours in 24 weeks. (I’ve no idea how we will do the sleeping hours, lol!)
More about the 1 Day 1 World Project here.

Still working on Donna dog’s mounting behaviour

Eight months ago, I wrote about why my dog humps people/ other dogs. My conclusion was that she was not socialised to behave appropriately in a situation involving a lot of dogs. At the shelter, where there are a lot of dogs, it was normal for her to be over-excited and spinning in circles non-stop.

Subsequently, we’ve only been exposing her to places with less dogs, and hoping to slowly train calm behaviours from there. And then slowly expose her to situations with more dogs. But that’s easier said then done, because it’s really hard to control the number of dogs she is exposed to in a systematic or planned way. And sometimes, the human is not very consistent as well :P

So for a while we sent her to daycare, where she could socialise with other dogs in a supervised environment. The daycare said that Donna did not show any mounting behaviour for that period.

I’m wondering if the dog has learnt that mounting is not preferred but only in specific places like the daycare. That is, she has not generalised that mounting is not preferred in all circumstances.

I’m thinking this because this month, she has been showing mounting behaviour at the new places we went to. Although, I’m thinking there are different reasons for the behaviour as well.

Mounting Behaviour at T.A.Z. Cafe, Saturday

Take for instance at the newly opened T.A.Z. cafe. There were two active dogs there playing with each other. And Donna really wanted to play with them.

DOnna playbows the other dog

But they were totally engrossed with each other, and all Donna could do was follow them around and watch them play.

playing dogs

I suppose eventually, after getting tired of watching from the sidelines, she tried to mount the bigger dog in the pair to get his/her attention.

donna mounts the other dog

Only it got my attention instead, so I started to recall her… and recall her… and recall her every time she tried to mount the dog.

donna looks on as small dogs play

In this picture, Donna is by my side and can only watch the dogs play. I suppose it became more of a negative punishment (called away from other dogs = boring) than a positive reinforcement (called away from other dogs = get food reward for responding to the recall) because she didn’t really like the food for dog we bought for her at T.A.Z cafe … oops. But she got the idea and stopped trying to mount the dog. It helped that other dogs came in later who were happy to play with her.

I have to say, now that I’m looking at the pictures again, I do wonder if the dachshund was totally happy playing with the lighter dog or if the dachshund was trying to get away. I wasn’t paying as much attention to them as I was to Donna, unfortunately. But I do know that the owner examined the dachshund later on and was unhappy to find bite/scratch marks on the dog.

So please do supervise your dog when he/she is playing with strange dogs. :)

 

Mounting Behaviour at Marina Barrage, Sunday

The next day at Marina Barrage, Donna had a great time playing with her new Japanese spitz friend.

donna dog plays with japanese spitz dog

Her friend tried to mount her, but she didn’t try to mount back.

But later on when a male border collie arrived, she got very interested and mounted him within minutes of checking him out. That got the border collie worried.

donna dog checks out border collie

I’m not sure how Donna decides to mount one dog but not the other. I can only guess that perhaps as the morning went by, she got progressively more excited with all the activity going around. I can’t say for sure though, because I was distracted with the activity around as well.

Donna has some experience with border collies at the daycare, and from what I hear, they don’t really play with her. The last border collie we met was on a walk at night. The border collie was barking madly and dragged his owner all the way to meet Donna. That took us by surprise and gave me a bad fright as Donna was screaming… but it turns out from excitement rather than from fear.

I think more exposure and observation is necessary before I can draw any informed guesses as to her motivations.

But needless to say, Donna spent the rest of the birthday party doing time out away from the other dogs.

The border collie’s owner remarked that if the other dog is ok with it, the humping shouldn’t be an issue. And I agree with that.

Gary Landsberg, DVM, a veterinary behaviorist in Ontario, Canada, says mounting is common play behavior in puppies, and is even normal in the play of older dogs if it’s not taken to extremes. “You’ll often see one dog mount another, then a few minutes later they’ll switch off and the other dog will mount the first dog,” Landsberg says. “It’s a common play gesture.”

It’s done by males and females, even by dogs that have been neutered or spayed, he says. “It’s a play behavior that dogs do because no one has told them it’s not acceptable,” Landsberg said. “It can become enjoyable or a normal part of the dog’s day, so it keeps doing it. It’s the same as jumping up or barking at the door.” – pets.webmd.com

But in Donna’s case, time out is necessary for the following reasons: –

  • She was over excited and restless and didn’t try to stop mounting the border collie despite being recalled. Unlike at T.A.Z. cafe, this was an environment with more dogs. I do not want her to stay in that over-excited state.
  • The border collie was worried and I shouldn’t let Donna give him more stress.
  • In situations involving new dogs and owners we are meeting, even if the dog is OK, I do not know if the owner is OK with it.
  • While humping may not be an issue if the dogs are good friends, I’m not sure if it sends Donna a confused message. Why is she allowed to mount some dogs but not others?

So as a rule, Donna is recalled when she starts to show mounting behaviour. And if she shows it repeatedly despite being recalled. She gets to do time right next to the human. :P

It’s a bummer for the human to sit out the action at the party, but I believe in being consistent with the dog. (Note: Mr P informs me that I didn’t really sit out for that long. Haha. )

Anyway, I’m thinking I should probably find something to attach her lead to some body part so I can walk around with her with me unencumbered for next time. That is, once she has calmed down sufficiently using the matwork, rather than just spend the time sitting on the mat the whole time.

Donna Dog’s First Day Home


If you take photos of your dog to document his life and your times together you are not alone.

I didn’t take many pictures of Donna when we first brought her home. So this is the only one photo that I can accurately say is from her first day home. It was also the one and only night she spent in our bedroom.

She was restless the whole night, clattering about. It ended up being largely a sleepless night for both of us. Strangely, this itself has become memorable, encapsulated in a simple photo of her preferring to curl up on a nice new towel, rather than her old tub bed from the shelter. And nearby a baby sofa that she could not fit into.

A new home. A new towel. A relationship so new neither of us knew how we fit together yet.

This to me is the value of photography. The ability to document and capture memories visually. It doesn’t matter what your equipment is – a cell phone, a point and shoot camera, a DSLR. In fact, these two photos above were shot with an iPhone.

Using this photo for a different activity on Instagram, but thought I’ll share the photo here as well. :) Share with me your first day home story in the comments if you like :)

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weliveinaflat dog blog in June, 2014


Donna by janicia.blogspot.com

June has been an interesting month. Just as I thought I had caught up with things in May, June was just one hectic mess all over again. Largely due to changes in how I was blogging and also in my real life, I have to say.

The result is, after four consistent months of blogging 5 days a week, I have decided change the schedule to 4 days a week. If you have been following this blog closely, you would have realised that the posts are getting more informative and more thoroughly researched than ever before. This means more hours spent per post. This cannot be sustainable on a 5 days posting schedule. No way. :P

But you know what, I like that I am creating value with some of these posts. Things I didn’t know about general anaesthesia in pet surgery, I only found out when I put in the time to do the research. And I’m glad that people who are like me, who care deeply about the well-being of their pets, appreciated the post.

So thank you very much for taking the time to visit and read, and I hope the blog doesn’t disappoint you.

I welcome any feedback and comments either below the post or via email at weliveinaflat@gmail.com :)

Now let’s take a look at what you liked in June.

Here’s a rundown of the top 10 posts in June that got the most views from you:

  1. Twelve Nights – Adopt, Don’t Abandon – Singapore
  2. Dental Scaling under General Anaesthesia! Oh no!  – Pet Diary
  3. 9 Quirky Dogs Catching Things – Pet Photography
  4. A Fun Photoshoot for Donna – Pet Diary
  5. 10 Creative Doggy #Interactivegrams – Pet Photography
  6. Does your dog leave human things alone? – Pet diary
  7. This Goldie Mans a Restaurant in Ximending – Dogspotting travel series
  8. Roundup of top posts in May – Blogging
  9. These dogs own the street in Pingxi – Dogspotting travel series
  10. This cat has OCD – Pet Diary

This is a blog about our adopted mongrel dog after all, so I can’t tell you how glad I am that interest in a documentary about dogs in a shelter – Twelve Nights – exceeds that of other posts in June.

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#1 post in June: Twelve nights – Adopt, Don’t Abandon

One of the reasons I started the blog in the first place was to document how well or badly Donna is adapting to life in a flat. There is Project Adore of course, a program that helps flat owners adopt mongrel dogs like Donna in Singapore. But you hardly hear about the program or of any of those dogs adopted. Sometimes we still meet people in the lift who are surprised to hear that you can now get approval from HDB to adopt a mongrel.

So if it helps to drive any potential HDB adopters to adoptadog.sg or any of the Project Adore shelters at all. Then good.

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Pet photography posts also did well

I’m also glad that the new series started in June is doing well in the Top 10. In particular, 9 Quirky Dogs Catching Things got quite a bit of shares over Facebook, which is awesome because that means all the great photos of different breeds of dogs by different Instagram photographers were being shared to a greater audience beyond Instagram! A number of shelter and adopted dogs were featured as well, showing that shelter dogs can make great pets too. And if it helps the one shelter dog featured in the post get adopted, how cool will that be?

Here’s the rundown of the series started in June:

Themes in Pet Photography (Weekly)

Dogspotting in Taiwan (Weekly)

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Posts about the dog

Our shenanigans will continue to feature on the blog. The 1 day 1 world project ensures that Donna gets regular weekly air time as well. Because, well I like to look back at the times we had and Mr P gets to know what happens those times he wasn’t with us because he was travelling overseas for work or otherwise. And hopefully, you enjoy them too :P

1 day 1 World (Weekly)

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Pet-friendly establishments

Once a month, we review a local Pet Cafe. It’s not because we’re paid to do so, but it ensures despite our busy schedule, we still take Donna out to new places. :P You can see the list of Cafes and link to read the reviews from our Pet Cafes in Singapore page.

And because, we do do some online shopping, I’ve refreshed my list of online shops based in Singapore. I’ve ranked them by Alexa ranking simply because it was the easiest way for me to make any sense out of them. I was also interested to find out which of these start ups are registered business and which are just businesses on the web which may not be regulated by any authority. I think it’s important for us as consumers to be aware of these details when making a decision whether to buy from a particular store or not. You can see the list of ranked stores on the Singapore Pet Online Store Ranking page. If you run an online shop listed and would like the business registration information updated, please do contact me as well.

 

July plans

So that was all that was going on in June. July is going to be exciting because weliveinaflat is hatching a photo challenge sort of of activity with somewhitecookie and mangothesheltie on Instagram.

So stay tuned, especially if you are a local #dogsofinstagram in Singapore – watch out for it!

Donna goes to her first birthday party – title updated

So, one and a half years ago Donna started her new life with us. Which meant she was pretty friendless, since we didn’t really have any friends with dogs.

We tried taking her back to the shelter to visit on occasion, but she didn’t seem very friendly with the dogs there. We sometimes bump into neighbours on walks and she did make some BFFs but those times we bump into them are few and far in between. All our walking times are just too inconsistent, I guess. We tried meeting up with other dogs on the pets forum, but Donna didn’t find any buddies there either.

It was only when we started our Instagram account that suddenly we were able to connect with other dogs and their humans. And it’s really great because everyone can see each other’s pets and how they are getting on on a more or less regular basis. And somehow, these great bunch of people are just more active and enthusiastic about meeting up and socialising our dogs in general. More active than lazy us!

So we were really happy to be invited to a birthday party by one of our instafriends!

dogs at marina barrage

Yesh, I can haz birthday pup cake and eat it with my mouth open, human.

donna dog eating pupcake
donna dog and biscuit

You know what, Donna doesn’t like biscuits. She takes it and usually throws it on the floor. But this one on the pupcake, she actually ate it. ;)

Looking forward to more good times ahead with the Dogs of Instagram, Singapore. ;)

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I am bendy

dog sniffing butt
dog licking butt

I am comfy in my crate and I smell good. Get over it, human.

Because dogs do that.

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