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Shiver me timbers, this rain and thunder! D:

The storm today had thunder that made me jump just a little and the dog shivering uncontrollably. Even before it came, Donna was already communicating her nervousness, putting her front paws on my chair as she tried to attain some height.

I took out the new pack of doggy sausage from the refrigerator and sat in the living room, cutting it into tiny treats ready to disburse to the dog every time the thunder rolled.

But when the thunder hammered across the sky, she was one mass of jiggling nerves. I’m serious. If you had put your arms around her, she would have felt like a violently trembling Osim massage machine.

The rare treat of being on the sofa gave her no comfort, she tried to climb the coffee table. That was too dangerous. I stopped her. She didn’t feel safe with me, she ran off to poke at the child gate barricading the kitchen, seeking safety elsewhere. Needless to say, the doggy sausage went largely unheeded.

Finally I called her to come and put a t-shirt on her, hoping that having something she was not used to on her would distract her enough to calm her down a little.  When she finally settled,  it was under the coffee table, enduring the irrational doggy voices in her head. 

Suzanne Clothier says it is OK to comfort the dog. The challenge is how does one do that when the dog has already tuned you out?

Hugging the dog is not the option here, Donna does not like to be hugged. She could put up with it on occasion, but hugging her when her tail is already tucked in between her legs just seemed to me to be heaping further pressure on her.

She likes to be petted, but on her own terms and only when she comes looking for you.

That’s why in general, I can only take the measure of her fear by offering her treats. She ignores them when she is too absorbed in her fears. If she had the presence of mind to take them when offered, it means she was gotten calmer.

When she took the bit of tuna I offered, I took the T-shirt off her again. She grinned pretty happily like it was a load off her back. But the thunder continued and she stopped taking the food on my hand, focusing on the fear that has gripped her doggy mind. So I put the T-shirt back on her.

Nope, she has not mastered her fears although she is slightly more responsive with the T-shirt back on. She is worried but not so much now. She tail is only slightly tucked inwards rather than totally curled. Still nervous though judging by ow distracted she is, her ears, eyes and panting.

I’m not sure if the T-shirt helped or made it worse, but at least she settled by my feet and the massage-machine level of trembling had disappeared. She was still salivating more than normal because of the heightened excitement.

I kept offering tuna to her nose but it didn’t work. Since she had laid down by my feet, I sat calmly cutting up the rest of the slighted sausage, packing them into a container for use as training treats at a later time. On hindsight, perhaps I should have petted her more?

Eventually I tried stooping down and getting her attention while offering the tuna. It worked. And as the thunder lightened, I switched to the sausage treats.  That worked too. Good.

Here it is the container of tiny cut sausage treats, the result of today’s endeavour to slowly lift her reaction to thunder with food. She went into an automatic sit and was trying her hardest to telepathically send feed me messages. Hah! Fine, one last tiny piece for her.

She’s quite adaptable with the t-shirt.

She gave up lobbying for treats after she realised I was not giving anymore since the rain had stopped. She had somehow managed to get her front paws through the collar of the shirt. I thought it made her look like a Japanese geisha with the obi belt. Haha :P

I felt quite drained after the storm. She must feel so too.

After the rain, we prepared to go out for a much needed walk in the cooled evening air. She sputtered with disgust as I squirted ear cleaner liquid into her ears against her will. She hated me. More than she hated the thunder at that moment probably. She poured all her anger into her beloved Dentastix that she chomped on vehemently, a goodwill gesture on my part for inflicting the ear torture on her.

Then we headed out for a simple walk, no training. Just brisk walking to clear both our heads and our souls.

A lady who passed by us asked to pet her. Donna reminded her of her own dog, she said. In the last few months, Donna seemed to have gained confidence with meeting strangers, compared to when she met Uncle Gardener. She did not react to the lady’s hand hovering over her head.

The evening was cool and wet and she got all her paws muddy. But she returned with a healthy appetite for dinner and now lies on her side sleeping without fussing to play like she usually does after her meals.


I’m sorry if today’s post is a little melodramatic. It’s just how the words flowed today. :P

I decided to order a 3 feet-long crate for her. I wasn’t sure if I should get 2.5 feet or 3 feet because I vaguely remembered reading somewhere that the crate should not be too large so the dog would not eliminate in it. A call to the pet store was unfruitful as it could not give me the advice I needed. The pet store owner was too busy trying to explain to me that a dog crate is a plastic box and a dog cage is a metal enclosure but was unable to advise on which size to get.

I spent some time searching and reading before I found the clarification online. In general, the dog should be able to lie comfortably on her side and to sit comfortably without hitting her head, so a three-ft crate will likely be more comfortable for her 15kg frame. A smaller 2.5 feet  crate is only necessary for a dog that is not toilet-trained and is in the process of being house-trained.

We are getting the metal one which allows for greater air flow since our weather is typically hot and humid. Given her penchant for seeking shelter in the galley kitchen and under the coffee table, I think it should work great as a refuge for her (if introduced properly), especially on days when there is nobody home. Fingers crossed!

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  1. Wow. You both went thru a lot. Have you tried Rescue Remedy? Over the counter safe calming liquid available in pet stores. Crate should be size so she can stand and turn around easily. Louise, who is my big black fearful one, seeks out here crate whenever she is stressed. Sofie, the little blond, would never go in except I make her. They sleep locked in crates all night with a curtain down to limit distraction. Looks like you are doing all the right stuff. – Lorian

    • Hi Lorian, no I’ve not heard of Rescue Remedy. Will ask at the pet store when we drop by to pick up the crate today. Thanks for the suggestion :) and advise that like Louise and Sofie having different preferences, not all dogs will like their crates. I do hope I am doing the right stuff with the crate though! :P

      • You can never go wrong with a crate. But it takes training and treats. Good luck. (PS. I use a sheet over the sides to help make it private. Louise really likes that.

  2. Poor Donna! Dogs can sense the change in the barometric pressure before the storm starts. The teeshirt may have helped a little – the Thundershirt is designed to help dogs relax because it feels like a hug. Speaking calmly and stroking gently is also comforting to most dogs. If Donna likes her new crate it may be her “go to” spot to feel safe. I read that some dogs like to stay in the bathroom during electrical storms because the plumbing (being grounded) helps to discharge the static electricity from their coats. There is a series of music called “Through a Dog’s Ear” that is designed to help dogs relax and counter condition them to thunderstorms. Max is okay with most storms but really stresses when there are fireworks. I found that a DAP calming collar and some calming spray (pheromones) in the room helps him to relax. His safe spot is between my feet and the desk. We love them so much and hate to see them scared.

    • We never got the thundershirt so yes, the T-shirt was inspired by that :P and I tied it around her snugly since it was awkwardly big! Despite what some people think that all dog humans talk to their dogs all the time, I’m pretty calm and quiet :) But that means the storm has more airtime with the dog than me I guess. :P On hindsight, I should have just switched on the TV or music like you’ve suggested, although it just totally did not occur to me at that time!

      Don’t think I’ve heard of the DAP collar, but you reminded me of that calming essential oil spray that I’ve got! Again hindsight!

      I remember someone shared before that their dogs like to hide in the bathtub together but I didn’t know it has anything to do with static electricity! Interesting!

      Great thoughts. Now I think I just need to paste a checklist somewhere! Things to do during a storm. :D Thanks alot Linda, it really helps to just blog about it, get all your great comments so that the cogs in my brain start turning more constructively!!! :D

  3. Poor thing! I can appreciate her fear as I find thunder terrifyng too, but it must be even worse for an animal that’s confused as well as scared, and can’t rationalise it.

    • You are totally right Matthew! Thank you for popping by and taking the time to share your concern. I appreciate it! :)

  4. She looks adorable as a Geisha for sure! Poor sweetheart. I know just how the 2 of you feel with the thunder. Simba was also like that and didn’t want to be cuddled when the rain and thunder starts but after a while he found out that my arms feels a bit safer, not that it stopped him from panting and because they can hurt themselves and also develop fever from all the stress I started giving him Kali Phos No.6 tissue salts to calm him down. He eats it like I would eat sweets. You can try it with Donna too. It’s very safe as long as you don’t give her the whole bottle or half. You can try Rescue drops or tablets too. It’s also great! It worked with Simba when he was a baby but he became depressed after using it, so I switched over to Kali Phos. I normally give Simba 2 when I see the weather starting up, then 1 more every hour..depending on the weather. He weighs 13kgs. Then I also give him his Allergex that I normally give at night. It makes him sleepy too, so with the No. 6 and Allergex he becomes calm and sleeps on my lap. When it’s a heavy storm I would go and sit in the bedroom, switch on his favourite music (The Baseballs) and then I start brushing him or I wil keep him on my lap and kiss him. Then he would fall asleep after a while. Please give her big hugs and kisses from me. Have a great weekend. :D *hugs*

    • Oh Sonel, I honestly love thunderstorms (especially when I am indoors :P) but just having an “OSIM massage machine” jiggling next to you is draining. I don’t know why but it is! I will ask about the Kali Phos No.6 salt in the pharmacy. Quite surprised to hear Simba is 13kg. I thought he is smaller :P and how do you even know what music is Simba’s favourite??? :D Don’t ask me about Donna… I have no idea what her taste in music is!!! :P

      • Oh, me too! I sleep at my best in thunderstorms or rain.
        Whahahaha..yep, know too well about the “massage machine” – Simba jiggles like that too…hehe. Shame, we can’t laugh..it’s a serious matter for them. I always feel so sorry for him when I see the fear and confusion in his eyes. It’s like he thinks the world is about to end and then I tell him the sky is not falling..he doesn’t have to worry..but noooo..he doesn’t listen… :)

        Oh no, he is quite a sturdy “young” man. He looks so well because he eat so well..heheheh..but luckily he is not overweight. It’s because he has a mixture of Poodle and Pekingese in him and most of it is pure muscle. :D

        heheheh, because I love The Baseballs as well but I do have Selena in the mix, as well as Colbie Callait, Michael Bublé and even Pink … but he stops shivering when The Baseballs starts singing. I think he is an Elvis fan too…hehehehe

  5. Poor Donna! Me and Nalle would cuddle with you to keep you safe! You do look lovely in pink though! Woooowoooo, Ku

    • It seemed to be the T-shirt to use since she wore it before :P That pink one. You and Nalle are lucky to have each other Ku :)

  6. Our dog is old, and still inclined to discomfort during thunderstorms. She takes refuge in a room without windows, which in past houses have included a bathroom and a basement store room (currently she is exploring the options of under the dining room table, the piano, and any other room she feels motivated to hobble up or down stairs to explore in this most recent relocation of ours). Perhaps if the cage doesn’t feel right for Donna, it might become more cave-like with a blanket tossed over it. The t-shirt reminds me of how a cattle squeeze (the tight hugging around the core of the body) can give comfort to the animals during vaccination or health exams. You make some very interesting observations in your post.

    • Oh I’ve never heard of the cattle squeeze before! But I guess it is likely that the dog will always have some reaction to thunderstorms huh… oh well, I’ll keep trying to make it better and see if there’s any progress there…. if I were at home when it occurs!! That’s the problem with it, even if we do make some slight progress, I fear she will regress when the storm caught her alone by herself. But that’s just me pointlessly worrying about things I suppose. :P But that’s a good suggestion about the blanket tossed over the crate. I do hope it helps her! Thanks for popping by and sharing about your dog! I do appreciate it :) Have a great weekend in the new house. :) We just moved in our flat last year and its a mess still with some unpacked boxes!!!!! :P -_-!

  7. Donna, I’ve nominated you for an award! http://haikubyku.com/2013/07/26/my-favorite-things-award/
    Wooooowoooooo, Ku

    • Oh thank you Ku! I’m sure Donna will be very happy to hear, except that she has ran off to the door wagging her welcome dance to the part-time domestic help :D

  8. One of our dogs hides in the closet whenever it rains. :( Good luck!

    • Awww… I don’t mind her hiding. It’s the helpless horror and trembling that I don’t like to see her go down into. I hope your dog deals better than her once he/she is safely closeted! Thank you for your well-wishes, I do appreciate it. Have a great weekend! :D

  9. well done first of all – you both got through it! Putting the teeshirt on is a great idea – our pet shop sells weighted jackets (like wet weather coats but with some padding in them see http://www.bowhouse.com.au/p/4863908/thundershirt—the-best-solution-for-dog-anxiety.html) to treat nervousness generally and one of ruby’s friends wears one out in the park because he is very nervous (and he’s a lab). the crate we had was essentially a wire cage with two doors at each end and a hatch on the top (this web site is an example but we didn’t get one from here http://www.mypetwarehouse.com.au/ALL-FOR-PAWS-WIRE-CRATE-GIANT-p-18191). Also had a removable tray underneath for spillage maybe but you need to put a blanket inside it. I don’t think she’ll soil in there as she’s not a pup any more. Hope next time is gets slightly better :)

    • Thank you for the references! I thought I had an old comforter I can lay in her new crate, except that I remember belatedly that I had thrown it away when she vomited on it – -!! Shall have to get a new blanket for her!!

      • Sorry – when I posted this I thought I was bombarding you with too much info. Do think the thunder shirt might be an option. Simulates hugging which you said you can’t do to her when she’s anxious and is nice and cosy.

  10. We can definitely relate to hearing that Donna does not like to be hugged, and that She likes to be petted only on her own terms. Hanzo is is exactly the same, and he hates thunderstorms too. I think the only thing that scares him more is New Year’s and 4th of July – firecrackers…

    Glad to hear that she’s becoming more comfortable with other dogs. :)

    • Yup, I’m glad she’s becoming more comfortable with other dogs too! We are lucky in a sense, since only our government legally has the right to put up fireworks, and it typically does not happen in residential areas. So fireworks are pretty rare around this parts :P

  11. That didn’t sound like fun Donna. I tend to just nap through them unless it is a big clap but my mates down the road are known to escape when the thunder and lightening start. If there mum is out than my mum goes out and brings them down here…. that is a lot of wet fur between 3 rough collies!

    • Oh, you are the luckiest dog in the world to be able to nap through storms!!! And that sounds rough for your mom, rounding up 3 wet escaping collies! D: How lucky for the collies that your mom is around! What if they get lost in the rain? D: Stay safe first world dog!

      • Thankfully we have a very dog friendly neighbourhood and most people know the dogs and who they belong to so if anyone goes on unofficial walkies they get returned home.
        Our front yard becomes the unofficial dog park on summer evenings with dogs playing and owners enjoying a glass of wine.

        • Your front yard sounds really cool. Our neighbours seem to like to keep to themselves, but I did meet a friendly westie puppy today, so there – my first neighbourly dog connection! Thank god… after 6 whole months of walking the dog around the neighbourhood!!! :P

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