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Dog gets fearful around dog run, human embarrassed

tucked tail suggests dog is under some form of stressOne of the things I actively detest is when my dog gets fearful. That she does on occasion, particularly when it comes to the dog run at Bishan Park.

Long story short, she got chased there by a pack of dogs released by a dog walker at the dog run entrance. She subsequently developed a fear of that particular dog run. After weeks of actively walking her about the outside of the door run to counter condition her against the fear, she finally developed the confidence to step into the dog run again.

But with the rainy season in the end of 2013, we stopped going to the dog run. Just before Chinese New Year, I thought I would take her there to romp around since she would mostly be home alone over the CNY period.

Never would I expect that her fear of the dog run would return after the hiatus from Bishan Dog Run!

But it did.

Her tail dipped lower and lower, and she took to sniffing the grass deferentially, and subtly trying to edge further and further away from the dog run instead.

So we slipped back into desensitisation training. We took the time to sniff the grass along the path opposite the dog run from one end to another, and then we turned around and I pulled her towards the grass bordering the edge of the dog run (slight resistance there).

She inspected the perimeter outside the dog run slowly. She spent long moments standing still eyeing the other mongrel that was standing still eyeing her back in the dog run. I could stand there idly and draw heart shapes emanating from their eyes across towards each other, except that I was to learn later that the other mongrel was a girl too. :P

By the time we sniffed all the way to the border of the bigger enclosure, the other mongrel was able to approach closer. They were separated only by the thin wire fence between them. The meeting was peaceful.

After half an hour, Donna finally seemed amenable to enter the dog run. She spent equal parts inspecting the grass in there, as well as playing with the mongrel and the sheltie in the dog run. One of the two humans remarked at how fearful Donna looked when we were still outside.

I always feel sorry for my dog when she gets fearful. I also get embarrassed when inevitably somebody at the dog run will remark on her fearfulness. It makes me feel like a bad human.

 tucked tail suggests dog is under some form of stress
Tucked tail, ears pulled back, tense posture signals a dog that is under stress. I was walking one way and she started to pull towards the other way. I couldn’t pinpoint the specific stimuli that would cause her to act this way though, for this particular instance.  This was an older picture from my archive.

But there is a happy ending to this. No matter how fearful she was, one always has the option to reinforce on the counter-conditioning because it does work with her.

By the end of the day, Donna has her fill playing with the young mongrel and sheltie dogs, who were not more than two years old. The young mongrel was particularly interesting, as she makes it a habit to repeatedly stalk like a cat from afar, before zoomie-ing towards Donna like a crazy rocket dog. The good thing is that Donna never did get spooked by her and they had fun playing chase-chase and attempting to do a three dog humping train – -… except that Donna always starts to spin to prevent the young dogs attempting to mount her. :P Good times~

NOTE: Be careful when visiting Bishan Dog Run in the mornings, as that is when the dog walker comes with her high energy dogs that always rush in from the entrance and startle other dogs. Either visit at other times or go deeper into the dog run, though I’m not sure that helps.

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12 Comments

  1. It sounds like the dog walker had no control over the dogs being “walked”.

    • She had a whole horde of them. One versus many. And they were all big dogs too. To be fair, they weren’t aggressive, just boisterous coming in and unfortunately Donna doesn’t deal with that well. I think people just accept that the dog walker is going to do that.

  2. No need to be embarrassed. It sounds like you did the exact right thing to counter-condition Donna’s feelings about the dog run. I think I was a bit embarrassed about Pierson’s dog aggression when it first started to present itself. But as I started implementing training techniques and started seeing results, I got more confident. Since you are obviously making progress, you deserve a pat on the back. Congratulate yourself for taking steps to help Donna because this is above and beyond what the average person with a dog does. :)

    • Thank you, more and more I realise that counter conditioning results will slide if I don’t remain consistent. Which sometimes, I don’t :P Heh. The more I read and learn, the more I would feel that I need to manage her hopefully in the right way so that it’s positive for her. Conversely, if I didn’t know, then I don’t feel that need to do it right :P Hee hee.

  3. Don’t be scared Donna! I still get scared sometimes tooowoowoooooo!

    • You do? You and Nalle look like you are always so happy with your other friends in the dog run!! Let’s be brave together. :)

  4. it’s sad that there are dog walkers around there that can’t control the dogs. They should be reported Mrs. P because that is not fair to other people as well as other dogs that like to walk there and I don’t blame Donna at all for being scared. I would have felt the same.

    You should not feel embarrassed ever again or detest it when Donna is being like that. It doesn’t make you a bad owner at all. And for those that like to ‘comment’ on her behaviour. Please tell them that Donna was a shelter dog and they should concentrate on their dogs and leave yours alone. No one knows what hell she had to go through before you found her and no love in the world will ever take away any fear or hurt hon. Dogs are way more sensitive than humans and you are the best that ever happened to Donna. :D *hugs*

    • Hi Sonel,

      sorry for missing your comment. Sometimes your moderation makes sense :P Haha
      Sometimes the other humans don’t mean anything bad by it, and I’m just a little too sensitive, I guess :P

      I thank you for the kind words and encouragement and lots of love to Simba!

  5. It sounds like you’ve got some good ideas for working her out of this. wish I knew what to with my Lucy, lately she doesn’t want to go on walks. when she sees one of us get her coat out she runs and hides. We take treats and the whole bit and once she gets going she has a great time. I assume it’s because its so cold out, but who knows.

    • Apologies! I seem to have missed this comment somehow and have just seen it. :(

      I hope Lucy is not still having that problem. I wonder why she doesn’t want to go for a walk. If her coat is the signal to go and hide, I may try changing to a different coat to see if that makes a difference. It sounds like between that to the time she gets outside, something in between is causing her to react. Finding out the stimulus can take time and observation skills. Hope it works out for you!

  6. Olaf

    Read the review story of pets n come accross this.. Oh olaf is also showing me fear sometimes n yes i do wait for him to calm down when he gets scared.. Ppl will always pass by n think what am doing bt slowly but sure they did make it :) :)

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